2 posts tagged with "Growth"

I've been wanting to write this for a while now.

If you've spent any time on either of our sites, you know the origin story from our welcome post: my partner and I wanted a triad — and we'd been in several. All short-lived, all ended gracefully, none of them the horror stories the internet would have you expect. We weren't new to this. We certainly weren't hunting anyone. But the poly community told us we were the problem, and we got tired of bad resources pretending to be the only truth. That's the what. This is the why now.

Here it is:

Relationships only work when the people in them want to be there.
It only takes one of them to end it.

Sit with it for a second. It's the best relationship advice you'll ever get.
It seems simple and obvious on the surface, but there's so much more to unpack past the first glance.