Triads are harder, not impossible
The claim that three-person relationships are doomed to fail: what research says, what experience shows, and what actually determines whether it works
Couples seeking a partner aren't always unicorn hunting
Why the blanket accusation doesn't hold up, and how to separate genuine concern from gatekeeping
Dating separately isn't the only way to build a triad
Where the advice to always date separately comes from, when it's useful, and when it creates more problems than it solves for couples seeking a triad